Tuesday, November 26, 2013
Learning skills from children
Tuesday, November 19, 2013
Conferences
I go to a lot of conferences and events for work, sometimes to learn and other times to network. I also organize a lot too, though usually on the small side with just a handful of participants sharing ideas and solutions to problems common to the other participants.
Beijing has an abuse off conferences. Most hotels only survive from the conference industry. They dominate here because everyone is trying to engage the all important government, and inviting them to conferences is a good way of doing this. Sometimes they are often investment related since the government is always doing its utmost to attract investment and consultants and service providers are always trying to sell their services and explain the latest changes to some relation our other. Or people are trying to train staff and salespersons which are always turning over. The are a million different industry associations all helping their members curry favour with the government and organizing those events.
In my world, the CSR (corporate social responsibility) world, they seem even more common. International organizations like the UN love funding conferences or projects that involve conferences to share projects results. There are all sorts of awards and a lot of trainings since it's a new-ish area. Then there is the philanthropy and charity space, which is mushrooming and leads to events on charity operations, the future of the sector, and the situation of the issue the charity works on, e.g. disability rights. And with a new and evolving sector everyone is using to get in on it, from think tanks to PR agencies, consultants (of which we are sometimes one) and the media.
However I severely limit my time going to conferences here, often not learning anything new, not meeting anyone new, and not able to contribute, just listen. The events we organize are highly efficient, informal, interactive discussions on the most part, specifically for practitioners most of which are our members. occasionally we organize larger ones which are to raise awareness. Last week we focused one on how to manage environmental and social risk bringing together banks and other companies to discuss why, their approaches, guidelines etc. We also brought in the charities who have an important role to play, particularly in applying pressure to companies and exposing the bad ones (the good ones like this as it justifies their investments in being good and helps level the playing field, important in China where many still don't follow the law). It was fairly successful, I'm pleased to report.
The week before, of course, I had been at the BSR conference, the largest CSR conference in the world, with very high quality attendees and some very interesting speakers. There were also all sorts of events before and during the main conference which are more focused. Two years ago, the last time the conference was in San Francisco, outside was the Occupy San Francisco protestors and one of the keynote speakers was Al Gore, talking about short-termism in the financial markets and how his investment firm (Generation Investment Management) seeks to prove you can make money by investing long-term, and in particular in companies that have positive environmental impacts. We did not have quite the same level of stature from the speakers this time, but we still had some really good talks on the role of technology in the future, how the media can be used to inspire people for good, how distributed solar will change the world, and how gamification can be used to change behaviors. Some interesting stuff and much more interesting than most events in China; and some fascinating people from all the big companies. The theme "the power of networks" was powerfully woven in throughout.
Aside from spending a lot of time at conferences recently, I've also spent good time with Hannah, who has really taken a liking to jumping (and finally got good at it). We've been to weddings, birthday parties, hikes and all sorts. We've also been to cooking classes (Hannah was pretty good at that, she'll be a better cook than me by next year at this rate). Still not much progress with her talking in any real language, but the listening is excellent. I think she's just realized she does not need to talk since she is so good at communicating with her hands and in her own language. One more positive news though is that we're finally sending a lot less diapers to landfill since she's got much better at using the potty!
Monday, November 04, 2013
Reflections on films
12 months ago I flew to New York and watched a couple of fantastic films on the flight. Films that were realistic and meaningful, but most importantly subtly provided opportunities for self-reflection whilst also subtly teaching important lessons. Today I flew to San Francisco and was fortunate to watch another one of those films: Stuck in Love. It's not just a terrifically acted and well written story with wonderful character development, but it is also about writing.
By being about writing, it allows for a few deep phrases here and there, but it also allows for the reflection on the purpose and ability of writing ("a good writer is the sum of their experiences") to add to the actual story. Managing to stay away from being to trite, it of course encourages viewers to consider important lessons; that I feel I've learn over time, but only in the last few years have I found films that I wish I would have watched a decade or more ago. That you don't know what you have until you lose it—so make the most of what you have; that you have to take a chance if you want to get something; and then of course concepts of family and love, though none of which can be adequately explained here.
As Andrea knows, I do like a good film that has meaning, though not one with too much meaning that you need to watch three times to really understand. It's a shame so much of TV and films are only to entertain and not to educate. Though educate is really not the right word. The power of film, or theatre, or music, books and other art forms, can be so strong by stimulating one to ask the right questions, to reflect on one's own life. This is also something I've learned through experience, and not something that was taught at school. I'm not sure what I took away from any of English literature, drama or related lessons, but I don't think it was anything that mattered for my own life, which is a shame.
Or maybe you can only understand certain messages when you can relate to them; when you've had similar experiences? Or do you need to be at an age when you can begin to self-reflect? As I'm a father (and also often a role model to others at work or when I talk at conferences and beyond), something that is always top of mind is how to help others think and learn; when to let them learn themselves, when to ask them questions or when to provide advice. The importance of someone being able to relate to a message is so important for them to understand, yet without ever knowing someone's situation it is hard to know how to make something relate.
A great film can do this: it can somehow relate to many people, though of course not everyone. It's fascinating how many books have come out in the last decade translating science (mostly social psychology) into practical advice. And these books (such as "drive", "the tipping point" etc) are classics; required reading really. They do a great job of relating to real-life situations. It's not easy to relate, but it's crucial. Something we identified 6 years ago in our Education for Sustainable Development program as being important and something that I feel is still lacking in education, in government programs, in managing people, in everything really.
Certainly governments tend to be awful at it—maybe because they have to relate to such diverse populations that they don't relate to anyone.
So that's my takeaway from watching the films that I like: how to make things relate to others if you want to engage, communicate, or influence them?