Sunday, October 09, 2022

Leah is 8

Leah's had her eight birthday party, a fairly standard activity nowadays with an entertainer (no bouncy castle or water slide of any kind this time), though we did book a pizza person and do it over lunch this time. They bring along a special BBQ for cooking a few pizzas at a time with coal and make the dough and everything fresh, with a variety of toppings to choose from. With her current obsession with Subway sandwiches we might want to think of a party Sub next time as well!

As is common we had tried to get people to RSVP through Leah distributing invites at class, and did get some in advance, but others RSVP'd in the morning of the party (and some cancelled due to illness) whilst others just turned up without RSVPs but it doesn't really matter for Leah (Hannah is a bit more picky about needing a lot of people, and certain people, to come). Leah did have one short moment trying to manage her emotions, which is quite common generally nowadays. It was certainly to be expected during a high emotion activity and one with many people around, often several at a time wanting to be right or to get their own way.

During a night away with a few other friends last night there was another moment, though this one more unreasonable, with Leah demanding a board game to go her way rather than by following the rules, taking the turns etc. Anyway, eventually everything was fine and her friends (and sister) generally are happy enough to move on. They can happily play nicely for hours, but when there are multiple strong personalities (and often a weak personality who follows a stronger person but not another stronger person) then conflicts tend to come up.

Driving an hour and a half or so out to the airbnb last night which was on the escarpment overlooking the Great Rift Valley with great views (and dusty tracks, dry barren savannah and strong winds), we often have traffic jams caused by cows crossing roads, donkeys pulling carts slowly or the usual slow, loaded, truck.

Several years ago there was a small organic farmers market at a restaurant in a wealthy part of town; once the restaurant was forced to close down the market moved to some space at the back of the animal rescue shelter which could earn some rent from the stands. We've been a regular customer for a year or two and recently found the market mostly empty thanks to the market's organiser's dispute with the shelter on payment and thus taking most of the stalls (and customers) back to the old location (minus the restaurant, now just in the grounds). The shelter is trying to keep the market going on their own, so we will have to see over time if there is space for both or what happens. Either way it is a nice place to get some artisanal food, drink and gifts (and some organic food of course!)

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